Defining the Dress Code

By Lori Lovely

 When heading out on vacation, it’s hard enough to know what to pack. When heading to a clothing-optional or nudist destination, it can be even more difficult to know what to wear – and not wear. Understanding the terms and their implied conditions can influence your travel choices and make your trip more enjoyable.

• Topless: Typically public, topless beaches are commonplace throughout Europe and South America, although they can also be found in the Caribbean and other destinations. As the word suggests, it’s acceptable for women to go sans bikini top. In fact, it’s practically second nature. Nudity, however, is generally discouraged or disallowed completely.

• Clothing-optional: Beaches and resorts, whether public or private, designated as clothing-optional leave the decision up to the individual. Nudity is acceptable, but so is clothing. It’s not unusual to see a mix of people in various stages of dress at a clothing-optional beach.

• Nudist: With few exceptions, the policy at nudist resorts, beaches and camps is that nudity is expected in public areas. First-timers are usually allowed to wear clothing until they reach their comfort level, but they’re urged to reach it quickly or risk lowering the comfort level of the other guests. Gawkers are strictly forbidden. Women are permitted to wear shorts or bikini bottoms when nature necessitates, and pubescent teens are often allowed to wear clothing. Some resorts stage special events or have designated areas (such as community restaurants) that require clothing, but don’t bother packing a swimsuit. Just be sure to carry a towel for a variety of purposes: men may use it to cover up in the event of arousal and everyone should use it on chairs as a courtesy.

Other terms to watch for when choosing a destination include family-oriented vs. adult-only. Many nudist groups promote healthy family nude recreation, but some people are less comfortable being nude in front of children, especially if it’s a new lifestyle.

Be aware, however, that “adult-only” does not necessarily translate into “swinger.” Not all nudists are swingers, and there is a huge philosophical difference between the two groups. Nudist groups strive to separate nude recreation, whether family or adult-only, from any type of sexual activity.

It’s not difficult to find the type of resort that suits your lifestyle. To be sure you’re going to the right place for you, ask: check the destination’s web site, contact them, or consult travel guides or travel agents.

If you find yourself on an unmarked public beach and aren’t sure of the policy, follow the old standard: “When in Rome …” Many beaches and resorts bow to the whim of their guests even when national policy does not officially acknowledge public nudity. Above all, be discreet and respectful and enjoy the delicious skin-to-the-wind sensation.